Fathers who recognize the significant impact they have on the health, safety and resilience of their sons and daughters, and those who have a supportive community, are some of the greatest deterrents to exploitation within a community.

Fathers Make A Difference 

  • Father-Con was conceived after years of working on the prevention of human trafficking. 
    Fathers intersect with human trafficking in several ways:

  • Personal behavior with pornography and commercial sex buying

  • Not modeling healthy male responsibility for sons

  • Raising daughters who are vulnerable to being exploited. Of course, girls can also be traffickers and boys can be victims, but the majority of buyers of sex are men and the majority of victims of human trafficking for sex are girls.

    The deceptive sense of anonymity provided by the internet, has lured both adults and children into dangerous ways of thinking and behaving.

What Men Can Do

When men prioritize being trustworthy and create space for children to feel safe and value honesty, the threat of being groomed and exploited greatly reduces.

50years of studies show that an engaged and attentive father or father-figure can remove many of the risk factors that traffickers exploit in recruiting and grooming of children for sexual commercialization.

Researchers found that the number one factor in developing empathy in children was father involvement. Richard Koestner, et al., “The Family Origins of Empathic Concern: A Twenty-Six Year Longitudinal Study,” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 58 (1990): 709-717.

Affection from dads can help children grow up to be more satisfied with their lives and accepting of themselves. “The Role of Remembered Parenting on Adult Self-Esteem” Riley L. Marshall, Colin R. Harbke, Lisabeth Fisher DiLalla

What People Say About Father-Con

Mark Winkler   Author and Youth/ Family Advocate

“Father-Con is a safe and diverse space. A safe space for fathers and fathers-to-be of all ages, races and religious orientations, to connect and share our parental experiences without the fear of judgement or shame. It is a healing space where fathers can learn and grow in their understanding and appreciation of the awesome blessing and responsibility we have been given to be a father to our respective children.”

Tera Hilliard   CEO Forgotten Children, Inc.

“I love Father-Con! In a world that says men aren't needed, Father-Con dispels that myth and encourages father's to step up in the lives of their children, and community . I totally support Patrick and the entire Father-Con team!”

Juan Solis    Father Engagement Coordinator San Bernardino County

Father-con is a gathering that should be duplicated in every County, state and Country. This conversation does not happen enough, or at all. We hear why father involvement is important in a child’s education, the social, emotional and physiological healthy outcomes. However, rarely hear how the connection with one’s father can prevent a child from falling into the human trafficking dark world. In fact, men are seen as the bad guy in most occasions when discussed in the human trafficking world. Father-con touches on so many aspects of how the connection between father and child contributes to decreasing negative outcomes. Father-con has definitely open the eyes of many and improved my perspective on the importance of father engagement.  

Lora Dene King daughter of Rodney King Jr   CEO Rodney King Foundation

This is one of the most important conferences I have ever been to.  

Dr. Jeff Brodsky     President/Founder JOY International

As one who travels and speaks about the tragedy and horror of child trafficking across America and throughout the world, I have seen the best in parenting and the worst. It’s easy to see the best when we see a child who grows into the man or woman of God He created them to be, with a full understanding of their identity in Christ and their destiny with Christ. This, to me, is the greatest quality we can teach our children. 
The worst in parenting, is when I have seen fathers who have no understanding of their role and responsibility in the protection of their children and seeing many of those children trafficked into the sordid world of child slavery. The very man who should be protecting that child… becomes their abuser. This is almost always due to the lack of understanding, education, training and teaching those very fathers what their role and responsibility is. 
This is why I love the ministry of Father-Con. They go above and beyond in searching for and reaching the hearts of fathers and turning their lives around by giving them a deeper and sincere understanding of how their lives affect the lives and especially the future of their children. When we can reach the hearts of the fathers, we can have a positive affect on their lives, their relationship with God and especially the future of their children. This is what I see as the vision, passion, and heart of Patrick Erlandson and the powerful mission of Father-Con. 

Harold D’Souza - Labor Trafficking survivor, former United States Advisory Council on Human Trafficking, Founder of Eyes Open International

Father-Con is a divine blessing in our community. I Harold D’Souza a ‘Survivor’ of labor trafficking and debt bondage in the Untied States of America is a Pure Reflection of Father-Con initiative to change the outcome in a MAN’s life, be it a  Father, Son, Husband, or just a common man. At one point in my life, I failed on 4 P’s : I failed as a Parent, Provider, Protecter and as a Person. Today with Father-Con’s empowerment, education, enlightenment, and encouragement  I flipped the 4 P’s into: Passion, Purpose, Power, and Prayers. Friends please join Father-Con on February 11th, 2023, Saturday to support the 7 P’s - (Rainbows of our life) : Passion, Perseverance, Purpose, Peace, Priceless, Parent, Patrick Erlandson - mission, vision, and dream to STOP Human Trafficking!

Meet the Team

  • PATRICK ERLANDSON: Founder and Executive Director

  • JOSEPH LUISI: Father-Con Executive Board Chairman Certified Domestic Violence trainer

  • ANDY WEISS: Father-Con Treasurer Owner of Crown Bookstores

  • BOB LEVY: Father-Con Board Secretary Foster Care Specialist

  • MARK WINKLER: Father-Con Board Member. Author of My Daughter's Keeper

  • VIJAY PATEL: Father-Con Board Member Former Los Angeles County Prosecutor, Attorney

  • RICK RODRIGUEZ: Father-Con Board Member. RMI Securities Founder, Former mayor of Downey, CA

  • AMANDA (CASEY) PULLEY: Auxiliary Board Member. Co-founder of Pulley Consulting, human trafficking lived experience expert

  • CECILIA GONEZ: Auxiliary Board Member, human trafficking prevention community advocate, Harbor Area YWCA

  • JENNIFER KELTNER: Auxiliary Board Member, Founder Rescue Party Give

  • DAVID YANAGIDATE: PMP Auxiliary Board Member

  • CHEL MYINT: Peer to peer program, social media assistant

Join our Team?

We’re always looking to add passionate talent!

Contact us today for consideration or to submit your resume, and cover letter: info@father-con.org.